Our Story

This is more than a dating site, it's also a place to meet, chat, and learn how other lives are lived with such circumstances. We all know a positive outlook is best, but sometimes we gain the encouragement we need when we converse with others...

I won my battle sixteen years ago against stage 1V cervical cancer. While my positive attitude and curious mind are still who I am, my physical body took a few years to heal and I now have a 'new normal'. Despite all the physical challenges, I had to then deal with the dating scene, and wondering silently how I would actually tell someone, "Intercourse wasn't happening"! I still wanted to hug, kiss, and hold hands with someone special but... I kept myself busy and lived in denial with my untold secret instead. Friends and family would question why I wasn't dating, I was running out of excuses, I then began to wonder who else was living with this same quiet solitude.

Wow, was I surprised! The percentages of men and women of every age were stunning. I was most amazed that dilemmas concerning intercourse wasn't just about middle age adults and up, the fact is there's a lot of 20-30 year olds in this special assignment.

This came to fruition! It's great to be able to share my story, ditch the secret, and help others to move forward in finding someone special who completely understands. Yay, I solved that uncomfortable last five minutes of a date...no intercourse, no problem, whew! Problem solved.